i’m only gonna be in manila for 11 full days, and i dont have much money, i am meeting my girlfriend for the first time, and then we hope to get married in the U.S. next year. Flying sounds expensive but time saving, boat/bus sounds cheap but time consuming. But the time cramped on a bus may give me an idea as to how we handle tough things together, or just the long travel together??? any help would be great.(by the way i will only have $1000 U.S. Dollars(51,450 Pesos) for my entire two weeks in the country for food/stay/gifts/fun. thanks for your help people

I had a dream I was at work with my boyfriend, and the place got flooded . . bad! He, being the security guard there, had to get everybody out. And me being his girlfriend, I wasn’t going to leave him. We were among the last to come out. He helped me out of the window of the room that was almost completely filled. I was instantly was grabbed up by a safety boat when I looked back I could see his form under the water. The boat quickly sped off leaving him behind. I went back to our house and waited and waited and waited. I was convinced he was Okay for a while . . that was until the News came on with reports of the incident and his name (though misspelled) was on the list. I lost my sh*t! I called his cell and someone else had the number. I was upset and yet everyone around me seemed to be fine or act like I was crazy. No one would go and pick up his things from his job, which had now relocated. So I went with a friend of mine. We were walking to the lockers when I saw my guy walk out of the bathroom and sign out of his job. I was floored! I had run into an old friend of mine and took her hand and dwalked up to him. He said casually “Hey” and I said “Uh uh” I put her hand in his and asked “Do you feel this?” and she said “Yeah” Then I jumped into his arms and cried. I looked up death in a dream dictionary and it said that it meant the end of something. But I don’t know what it means when the person comes back. Or if he even was dead, I didn’t get to look at him so . . .

I had a dream I was at work with my boyfriend, and the place got flooded . . bad! He, being the security guard there, had to get everybody out. And me being his girlfriend, I wasn’t going to leave him. We were among the last to come out. He helped me out of the window of the room that was almost completely filled. I was instantly was grabbed up by a safety boat when I looked back I could see his form under the water. The boat quickly sped off leaving him behind. I went back to our house and waited and waited and waited. I was convinced he was Okay for a while . . that was until the News came on with reports of the incident and his name (though misspelled) was on the list. I lost my sh*t! I called his cell and someone else had the number. I was upset and yet everyone around me seemed to be fine or act like I was crazy. No one would go and pick up his things from his job, which had now relocated. So I went with a friend of mine. We were walking to the lockers when I saw my guy walk out of the bathroom and sign out of his job. I was floored! I had run into an old friend of mine and took her hand and dwalked up to him. He said casually “Hey” and I said “Uh uh” I put her hand in his and asked “Do you feel this?” and she said “Yeah” Then I jumped into his arms and cried. I looked up death in a dream dictionary and it said that it meant the end of something. But I don’t know what it means when the person comes back. Or if he even was dead, I didn’t get to look at him so . . .

My girlfriend invited me to dinner at her yacht club, and someone at the table asked her to race on his boat with him, but she was already committed to another sailboat. So he asked me, and I accepted. She said I shouldn’t have accepted because I was just her guest and I shouldn’t have agreed to get involved in anything at her yacht club independent of her. I saw it as a chance to improve my sailing skills, and I felt she should be happy for me to get this opportunity. This is a boat she’s always wanted to sail on, so maybe she was just ticked that I was available to get this opportunity and she wasn’t. If so, isn’t that selfish and controlling? She insisted that I back out of the race and sit at home instead. She wants this part of her life exclusively to herself and only includes me selectively. She accuses me of just copying her interest and doesn’t consider that I have a geniune interest in this on my own. What is this really all about?